That One Relationship

Good afternoon Joyflakes!

I have been putting off writing about this topic for quite some time but today I can't shake the thoughts off so I feel like that means it's time.

Everyone in my opinion has a person in their lives that they love with their whole heart.  It may be a friend, or old flame, but they are a person that no matter what, you would do absolutely anything for.  You would go anywhere for them, and never question them.  These people imprint themselves on your lives in a way unlike any other.  They show up in your dreams when you least expect them to and disappear when you feel like they should be right there by your side.

I firmly believe that these people are put in your life to help you grow and change but it is sometimes hard when while that change or growth is taking place.  They come to you, support you, make you feel like super woman, and then without notice, when the time comes, they disappear again.  It's that disappearing part that pulls at your thoughts more than anything.  Quite frankly, it hurts.  They are meant to be there forever but may not be the person you are meant to have with you all the time forever.

It's during that last part thought, the part that hurts and nags at your mind until you think you're going to go crazy, that you have to make a decision.  You can be angry, hurt, and defiant enough to give up on them, or you can thank them.  Let them know you're going to miss them and that they've changed you for the better, and send them on their way.  The second option is by far and away one of the hardest ways to deal with loss, but with this person, I promise you that it's easier.  It also makes it easier for them to come back to you when you're both ready.

So to my person…Thanks! I wouldn't be where I am right now without you.

Until next time,

XOXO ~ Kae